/Sleeping In Separate Beds Is OK, And 20 Other Things Married Folks Wish All Unmarried People Knew About Marriage

Sleeping In Separate Beds Is OK, And 20 Other Things Married Folks Wish All Unmarried People Knew About Marriage

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“Talk to your partner before you make decisions. I can’t even tell you how much shit I get from my single friends when I tell them I’ll ‘check with my husband’ before agreeing to do something, but usually it’s just to make sure we don’t have something else going on that I forgot about. It’s not asking permission, it’s being considerate of your partner.”

“It’s especially true if you have kids. No, I don’t ask my husband to ‘babysit,’ but it would be pretty shitty for me to just say, ‘Oh, hey, I’m going out tonight. Have fun with a couple of toddlers by yourself and with no notice!’ And he treats me with the same respect.”

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